Twisted Philosophy

The more time you spend with someone, the stronger your bond gets and the deeper their existence means to you. Sometimes, you can't even let them go, can't even turn down the offer to be with them. And sometimes, their beliefs grows on you and you become accustomed to their personal ideas about the mysteries of life. This proves true to my situation. It's funny how Ris' beliefs became a larger part of me. She has too many of them to list, but I found that some of her ideas are pretty hilarious while others are questionable. I'll call it "Ris' Twisted Philosophies".

First and foremost, Ris believes that love truly is blind. It basically goes to show that in love, people look pass imperfections and flaws, outer appearances and status. Instead, it's what's on the inside that counts. However, to contradict her philosophy, she also believes that the main three aspect of the ideal guy for her is the hair, the eyes, and then finally the personality. Haha.

Ris also has a self-indulgence theory on food. She has no favorite meal because her favorite meal is whatever she's craving on the spot. Additionally, there is a time limit on her nourishment desires. The more she waits, the more her cravings dwindle until finally she no longer wants it.

Ris has an off and on button on control as well. It's like, when she wants to make decisions she does them. But whenever her mood doesn't take her on any conclusion, she passes on the decision on you. We even had a 50-50 partnership agreement. How the hell is that even suppose to work when it's either she wants to decide or you need to decide???

The most important philosophy of hers is the belief that she is ultimately correct in every situation. Basically, she hates to lose. If you argue with her, however, there's a possibility that you will win. But in the end, she wins anyways because she'll make you feel guilty and sooner or later, you'll end up crawling back to her to apologize for the mess you made. She just has this "Ok, you win" attitude that makes it so unrewarding to win that argument because she agrees undeniably which takes out the whole fun of even starting the disagreement. In other words, it's either she wins or you lose.

That's only a few of her basic concepts. Even though it seems that all of the things above is negative, it is actually the things that attracts me to her even more. And that's why I discovered that the best solutions for fixing her twisted philosophy is to not fix them at all. They're perfect after all.