Comfortable Zone

It's been a long journey. Looking back at how we started and the fast-paced progress of our love story impresses me. Not that I'm trying to brag or anything, but I just feel that our connection is so much more intense in a way that I feel very comfortable with her. It started out with shy and hidden feelings but it finally amounted into a relationship that seems to be much more easy going. We can always kid around about anything. Our laughs are even sometimes uncontrollable to the point that we are close to tears and our stomachs would feel like bursting. Haha. Just thinking about it makes me smile.

But that's not even the best part. We haven't really hit a wall where we had a real fight yet. Sure there's been some drama but that's just ideal. Whether it's a good or bad thing, I love the way it is now. I feel free from stress and very much alive like I've never felt before. I hope she feels the same way. I don't even have bad dreams anymore either...or at least, I can't remember them. Everything's going so well.Recently, we went to this potluck, Asian buffet-style feast where you do the cooking and eating. I've noticed something so good. Well, I'm not really talking about the food (Although it was great especially when Ris did the cooking! What a show-off!). I've noticed how close we are now. When we were cooking and all that, it felt like we were even like a married couple! Haha, it was hilarious. Cracking jokes, contributing to the sweet scent of appealing food, small pecks here and there, drinking an excess amount of milk tea, feeding each other the cuisine we created, and so on and so on until our bellies bulged out. Simply, we had a great time.

The whole point is knowing that we are very much comfortable with each other. Ultimately, it's an increase in our trust for each other as well. I trust her, and I believe she trusts me. How do I know? She told me so...

It's been a long journey. But it's not over yet! We've still got Lake Tahoe, Freight Fest, Reno, L.A. (shoutout to Jam! Muhaha =]), Korea, Japan, Paris, etc., etc., and each other. We've still got each other... =]