10/22/09

Distant Heart

Distance. I barely know what it feels like to be apart from the individual you love in terms of physical distant. A few miles can never separate my affection for her. This is why I admire those whose major obstacle is a long-distance relationship. It's a sorrowful feeling to know that you can't physically interact with your love. You can't put your arms around them, nudge them to express a type of joke, see their current smile, give them warm kisses on the cheeks, or just hold their hands in a statement that you will never let go of them. It is, without a doubt, difficult.

Knowing that it would be a difficult task, isn't it best to try and keep in contact with them for as long and as often as possible? I mean, opening up to them and expressing your feelings in depth can surely make the person on the other side of the line have a feeling of comfort. Even daily chit-chats can surely give them a sense of ease knowing that you can care less about the distant obstacle and be in concern about telling them that you made new friends or had your first shot of vodka. In other words, take the optimistic approach.

Distance. I'm definitely not an expert at it.
But whether you take that advice or not, it's up to you. I mean, what else can you do but that? It doesn't make any sense to keep things to yourself unless you just purposely want to end that relationship due to the extreme difficulty of the situation. Even staring at the same night sky can't fix being apart... But if you truly love her, you'll get through it. Just
remember that she's suffering as much as you are...

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